JG-L News-2010-January-C

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There is no "INDEX" page per se. Use the month and year pages at he the bottom of the page to review previous updates to this Section. I will generally do an update at the 10th of the month (A Series), the 20th of the month (B Series) and at the end of the month (C Series), with rotating pages from different sections of the site. Please read the introduction for each update and you'll find that I normally remember to hot-link to the appropriate new page.

Previous pages for this section will be placed in the archives for future reference and it's structure will normally be a month by month basis for each year (12 pages), sub-divided into three sections (A, B & C)

It's been pretty quiet here since the last upload, but things have been moving forward :-). Most of the details for the road trip in March and the trip to Munich in May have been nailed down and I am very much looking forward to them both.

Some friends mentioned to my wife that it might be interesting to some of you, to see how and why she puts up with all of my crazy antics and so here, below is her response ....

- STRAIGHT WIFE TO STRAIGHT JACKET -

A Vanilla and A Kink, Living together in harmony

By John/Joanna’s loving wife, Wanda

John is fond of saying: “I want to experience everything I can – they only pass the cookies once.” So I said: “Since I don’t participate in kink, does that mean I end up with the crumbs or the apple core or something?” I don’t think so.

For almost 35 years now, John and I have lived in an atmosphere of honesty, trust, and respect. As with any good relationship, we have made compromises and adjustments and that makes for a healthy union.

Fortunately, there was honesty, trust, and respect from the beginning. So, after we met, when John said he needed to tell me something he didn’t think I knew about him, I stopped him right then and there and said, "Well it’s already been established that you're not gay, so what are you trying to tell me – that you are a transvestite?" After he picked his jaw up from the floor, I said, “And so the problem would be ….. ?” to which he had no answer. I had no problem with that. To me, it was just a small part of his personality and I already knew he had a great one, so my only condition to that was “Just stay out of my closet”. Then he said he enjoyed designing and manufacturing kinky leather gear and again, I said, “And so the problem would be …. ?”, and added “Please accept that while I may become curious about the activities of the kink world, I do not believe I would want to participate.”

Away back then, I really didn’t know much about the kink world and had no desire to learn. I have since described it to friends as being similar to a huge selection of sports. Just because someone enjoys playing tennis, doesn’t mean they don’t want to associate with someone who plays football, or enjoys archery. If that sport/kink is the be-all and end-all of who they are, they’d be pretty boring, but when their other interests include a wide variety of subjects, then we can enjoy spending time with them.

Now, had I said, “Not only do I not want to participate, I don’t want to know anything about various kinks or the people that have them.” ... Well, let’s just say I would have missed out on meeting many wonderful people, all over the world.

I am so very proud of my husband and have encouraged him to be all that he can be. From refining his 'Creature' and the other diabolical objects he invents, to writing his books and getting them published, I have been steadfast by his side – without providing much input. When and where I can, I have injected some ideas, and I’m happy to say I can still surprise him when I come up with something. More about that later.

My first exposure to a tiny part of the kink world came when John said he was going to California to make a film about pony girls. California ... Disneyland, Hollywood, etc. I could find things to do, so I didn’t want him to go there without me. I actually got to meet some of his victims, er, excuse me, some of the ladies who wore his harnesses and what an intelligent, beautiful group of ladies they were. Later, I met others involved in the filming and sales side of things and that too was quite an eye opener for me. I was not exposed to a dark and dirty side of life, but rather just to a different facet. I had the opportunity to appreciate that the vast majority of the people John introduced me to, then and now, are very intelligent, warm, open, honest folks who have interests that vary from mine.

Some years later we went back to California and I was exposed to yet another new experience. This time we went to see a drag queen show in Central City at the Queen Mary Club. WOW, they were fantastic and I’d go again any time.

John was quite flattered when he was invited to show off his 'Creature' in an art gallery in Vancouver. Imagine that! His 'Creature' was regarded as a piece of art! Mind you, if he’d actually put a person into it, well that would have been illegal. Go figure. I was delighted when he asked me to help him with the story panels for his first Creature presentation and while I can’t say it’s true now, at that time, I knew more about Power Point and the computer in general than he did, so we had fun picking out a background and font. He has used those panels many times since then and I am pleased to have had just a little part in producing them.

Jeff Owen (House of Gord) came to live with us after separating from his first wife and when he arranged to do a photo-shoot with some beautiful women, I said I would like to see just what it was all about. Truth be told, I wanted to meet women that would allow themselves to be wrapped nude in cellophane and put into various scenarios. Jeff’s side of kink is very different from John’s and when we returned to our home, I told him how I felt about that experience. He said he’d never received that kind of feedback before (especially from a vanilla person) and asked if I would be willing to put it in writing so he could post it on his web site as a letter to the editor.

If memory serves me, I believe it said, in part, “I didn’t know what to expect and so was pleasantly surprised to hear so much laughter and to witness the girls actually asking if they could try this or that. Jeff's preparation for each scene was done with such care and caution and it was incredible to witness. Always, always, safety first.” If he didn’t feel 100% sure that everything would work as planned, it didn’t happen. Some of you readers will have seen the resulting letter and photos on the House of Gord web site.

Strong friendships have resulted with some of the ladies that have been models and there was lots of fun and laughter when one of them was put into a Gord storage case, then driven around town with a remote controlled dildo fully active. I can’t begin to describe all the safety precautions put in place for that ride, which, incidentally, I did not go on. When they were testing the storage case in our basement, I recall being asked by the lady inside, if I could please turn on the clothes drier again! She loved hearing that muffled noise while fastened down inside it, and when she wore out the batteries in the dildo and asked if they could make the twirly-whirly work again, they couldn’t find any batteries so it was me who chimed in, “Can’t you take the batteries out of the talking parrot?” Yes, we had that silly thing in our house. Problem solved.

On another occasion, when Jeff and John had returned from driving all over the Lower Mainland, having spent most of the day looking for cotton rope to tie up the ladies, I told them I’d just come back from Ladner (a little place about 15 minutes away) where I came across some in a tack shop. Problem solved.

While the guys and ladies are playing their games downstairs, I’m usually upstairs carrying on with household duties for I can say in all honesty, that I enjoy playing hostess. It’s my way of being a part of what’s going on. I just say, “Play nice.” and have lunch or dinner ready for them when they’re finished.

Going out to a club doesn’t interest me, but having great friends come here for play or a party and even be our guests for days or weeks is truly fun for me.

At one of our house parties one of the gals was having her nipples sucked by two lovely ladies. Their procedure was: sip the wine, suck the nipple, sip the wine, suck the nipple. So I said, “John didn’t you say that chocolate goes well with wine?” Off to the kitchen I went to scrape chocolate icing off the brownies and return to cover the nipples with it. Now the scene was complete ... anything I can do to accommodate a good experience! Then there was another party when three of the ladies ended up playing naked twister on our living room floor. When they complained of being too hot, being a good hostess, I brought them ice cubes. Where they put those was up to them!

France, Hawaii, Holland, Austria, Belgium, Australia, Switzerland, Spain, Germany, England, the U.S.A. – so many places I would not have seen and wonderful people I would never have met had it not been for John and his kink interest. At one house party in Sydney, Australia, everyone but me was in some sort of kink fashion wear. Not to worry, one of the cross-dressers had just the thing! He loaned me a maid’s outfit and being the first time I had ever dressed up, I was able to surprise John again, when upon entering our friend's kitchen I said, “ Would you like a beer, Master?” to which he replied, “Beer my foot!” Of course, my response was, “Sorry, I don’t do feet!”

While helping our host and hostess prepare for another kink dinner party in Brisbane, we had fun making up silly kinky signs for the various appetizers. Try this one yourself. Once again, I had nothing appropriate to wear so our hostess kindly loaned me her maid’s outfit (do you see a pattern emerging?) and I became Mistress Marie, in charge of the kitchen. When the galley slave arrived he was late, and so of course Mistress Marie had to discipline him. Over the chair he went for a good swat from me and his “Thank you Mistress!” sent me into hysterics. I would never be able to maintain that role for long.

I did try one experience of kink, 33 years into our marriage, allowing myself to end up in a straight jacket for a short time. After which I could only say “I don’t get it?” So, I’ll continue to enjoy myself being on the outside and just peek in occasionally.

Throughout the years, people from both the vanilla and kink community have marvelled at the relationship John and I have, but I don’t think of it as anything more unusual than any other marriage. When you love someone with all his or her faults and foibles, and constantly communicate, it is a healthy, happy place to be.

John is now awaiting the publication of his ninth book by Pink Flamingo, and while it’s true that I occasionally have to say, “Earth calling John!”, it’s been a great life with this wonderful man of mine.

In the past couple of days I received the latest equipment; a wonderfully evil set of clamps from AXSMAR. I created the initial engineering sketches, then they ran with my re-design of the existing equipment and did a beautiful job!

What has resulted, is a clean, modern design that is a new version of the original nose clamp, but now it can not only be used as was the original intent, but can also be used to latch onto the nipples, and/or clit, and/or labia, with excellent security (i.e. it AIN'T coming off until the Master/Mistress wants it off). This is a 'systems' design and so you can use as many clamps as you wish, from one up.

I'll soon have a real live lady demonstrating them, so stay tuned :-). In the meantime, here below are some static pix of the equipment and I shall leave you to envision what the whole ensemble would feel and look like when in use :-).

The clip itself and then with a leashing chain. Believe it or not, the fit is a comfortable one, at least on the septum.

Here it is again and then the entire ensemble.

A lady, fitted with just one of the above clamps, will do damned near anything you wish of her, but with more affixed, perhaps at the nipples, clit and labia... well, she ain't going anywhere unless you permit it. An excellent means of keeping her in one place, be it your bed, a wall ring, or perhaps a street sign post or parking meter.

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My favourite rubber kinksters, RUBBER'S FINEST, have also been busy in their own workshops and come up with a new design that I think you'll find of interest. Here's some pix showing off their various gear.

RUBBER'S FINEST now have a video for sale as well as some very nice free teaser clips, so here below is the cover art for the new video and the teaser clips. Check them out!

The mask immediately above has a set of video goggles built in and is TOTALLY wild :-)!

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As per usual, the ROGUE'S GALLERY has been updated and I trust you'll all enjoy the eye candy presented there.

And so, without further ado, here's the usual C Series upload of banners and their associated thumbnails. Please consider subscribing to these sites, despite the crappy economic times, for without your continued support for them and my own, all us will disappear.

The PONY GIRLS CLUB has tons of pix of great looking ladies in harness, bit and bridle.

PRINCESS-FATALE is a beautiful Russian fetish model with some excellent images I'm sure you'll enjoy :-).

PUPETT is a good friend and I love her to pieces. She's not only very beautiful physically, but she has the personality to go with it ... humble, smart, funny and vivacious. She is a delight to be with at any time. However, those wonderful qualities are aided and abetted by the fact that she's also delightfully kinky and willing to try damned near anything, making her a great lady to play with.

QUOOM is a sister site to BDSM Art and has a great array of evil imagery. Worth a look for sure.

RESTRAINED ELEGANCE irs precisely what the name says ... beautifully photographed ladies who are stunning to look at.

RUBBER ASYLUM ... many would suggest that this is where I should be, rather than out here roaming around on the loose :-). I love their images and can certainly see myself volunteering for some of their special therapies :-)!

RUBBER BITCH ...Well, there's a lot of these around and I've met my share, but these folks seem to have it all together. Check 'em out!

RUBBER BOUND FOLKS are happy voyagers into their own special brand and practice of kink and you can accompany them by visiting the site. Nice people as well when I met them and I look forward to seeing what they come up with next.

RUBBER DYNASTY is the free, personal site of a lovely lady by the name of Gwen. We've done one photo-session so far and look forward to more to come.

RUBBER EMPIRE has some great images in their video collection. Worth checking out.

RUBBER EVA has some great pix and video, with a wide variety of subjects to keep you drooling. Check it out :-).

RUBBER MAGIC is a German firm making some GREAT rubber gear, and, as well, they have a wonderful gallery section on their site that will provide you with plenty of eye candy. Check them out :-)!

RUBBER MODELS is where you'll find lots of great looking ladies in some great rubber.

RUBBER SISTERS has a truly unique view point and is definitely worthy of a look-see.

Well, if I can't get into the asylum, the perhaps the folks at RUBBER VAULT will take me. Obviously, you can see why I like this site, for it covers so many of my own kinks.

RUBBER ZONE is a site with a huge and well organized library of rubber fetish images that you may find of interest.

RUBBER'S FINEST makes some incredible helmets and masks along with some truly inventive rubber costumes. A look through their site will not be disappointing.

SANDRA SILVERS has some excellent imagery catering to a wide variety. Worth the visit.

SECONDEPEAU is a couple in southern France that have a wonderful affection for rubber and kink and show it off with some excellent photography.

SERIOUS IMAGES is the other side of www.seriousbondage.com and is WELL worth the visit to see excellently photographed situations that many of us want to try out.

SERIOUS MALE BONDAGE is precisely that! If you want to see pix of men in bondage of all sorts, this is the place to go.

SEX AND SUBMISSION is what it's all about and this site from Kink.Com does just that.

SHACKLED MAIDENS pretty much says it all. How ELSE should a maiden be cared for? Great scenes and nicely photographed.

SHADOW SLAVES is pretty serious about its role and has a great selection of images.

SLAVE 24-7 is a private German site offering some interesting situations and tribulations for the lady of the house

SLINKY SKIN offers some great rubber images and videos on both their free and pay sites.

SWEET JESSY is a young German lady with quite an array of costumes that you may find of interest.

SWEET TRIXIE is a lovely German model with some very nice images to show of herself and her interests

TORTURE GALAXY has been around for a long time and offers some unique and truly arresting imagery.

TRAINING OF O is yet another offering from the folks at Kink.com and has some excellent photography of damsels in dire straights.

TRUSSEDUP shows ladies in some wonderful rope bondage for those who enjoy that creative form.

VALENTINA is a great rubber model with some wonderful costumes. I highly recommend a visit to her site.

WATER BONDAGE is another of Peter's sites that have thousands of images and video to browse through and you'll be interested to see how he employs the most abundant commodity on the planet.

WHIPPED ASS keeps you entertained with a ton of beautiful ladies doing their thing.

Electricity .... probably the scariest thing that the majority of people ever encounter. Peter and his merry crew at WIRED PUSSY find all sorts of different applications for this force of nature and his 'victims' find it ... mostly ... entertaining.

XOST is a Russian site that has some beautifully photographed ladies in rubber and bondage. Some good stuff here.